Bunnie Xo Reveals Husband Jelly Roll Is Falling 'in Love with Himself' Again After Shaving His Beard amid Weight Loss
Bunnie Xo also told 'Extra' that the positive reaction to his transformation "lifts his spirits"
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- Bunnie Xo opened up about the ways her husband Jelly Roll's confidence has grown after he shaved his beard for the first time in 20 years amid his weight loss journey
- The podcaster teased the country singer's dramatic facial hair transformation in November before he unveiled his look on YouTube days later
- Jelly Roll joked about his changed appearance making him look like a "Ninja Turtle"
Jelly Roll is feeling himself, and his wife Bunnie Xo loves being along for the ride.
In an interview with Extra TV, Bunnie (real name Alyssa Deford) said the "coolest" part about her husband's transformation, including him shaving his beard for the first time in 20 years, is "getting to see him look in the mirror and...fall in love with himself" again.
The 45-year-old podcaster — who first revealed that the country music star was ditching his facial hair in November, giving fans a full view of his face tattoos — added "because, you know, battling weight and being called memes every day and just living with that burden of the weight on him every day, that takes a toll on somebody's self-esteem."
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But now, with the results of his dramatic weight loss, Bunnie Xo said the "Wild Ones" singer, 41, is "getting comments like, 'You look so hot,' 'You look so healthy,' or 'I'm so proud of you.' That just lifts his spirits so much." It's exactly how she feels when she gets to watch her significant other's self-esteem grow.
Jelly Roll (whose real name is Jason DeFord) has been on his weight loss journey in recent years, and he reached his goal of dropping 275 lbs. “I'm loving my body,” he told Men's Health in a new interview. “This is a whole new thing for me, y'all, I've been imprisoned to a fat suit for 30-something years.”
At his heaviest, the musician weighed 540 lbs, and said that obesity and his food addiction left him with a lot of shame.
“It was never-ending sadness,” he shared with the outlet. “And anger. I was a prisoner to my own body. Dude, wiping my ass was a problem. Washing myself properly was a problem. Getting in cars. Every decision I made in life had to be based on my weight. If it could hold me, facilitate me, or fit me — people don’t think about every facet of ‘I still want to be able to do that and I can’t.’ I was so inspired by that kind of stuff.”
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Jelly Roll has also been very candid about how his new weight has changed his sex life with Bunnie Xo for the better, allowing him to get aroused again after struggling for years.
"I feel like I'm a teenager, dog," he confessed. "I have the sex drive of a 17-year-old again. I'm f---ing pouncing on my wife. We're having daytime sex again. It's f---ing awesome."
"My testosterone level — and I’m cool to talk about this openly — was of a preteen boy," he explained. "When I went in there for the test, it was bad. Bad. The world opened up when I seen it on paper. I was like, 'That’s my testosterone level? I mean, dude, we're talking a 57. You can't get it up without T. I was married to a smoke show, and I was still struggling…. The first couple of blood panels were like, 'How are you alive?' Now it's a totally different thing."
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"""My husband brought his mistress to our daughter’s wedding—and then asked me to give her my seat beside him. For a few seconds, I honestly thought I was looking at the wrong table, because my name card had vanished and Melissa’s was sitting exactly where mine had been on every seating chart. She wore a pale blue silk dress, lifted her champagne as if she belonged there, and avoided my eyes when I stopped beside the chair. David stood up, pointed to an empty seat at the next table, and quietly said, “For tonight, why don’t you sit over there?”
I had spent fourteen months helping our daughter, Emily, plan that wedding, from dress fittings and florist meetings to late-night calls over napkins and seating charts. That morning, while I fastened the pearl buttons on her gown, she made me promise I would enjoy the day and not let anything between her father and me touch it. I meant that promise, because whatever was left of my marriage, I would not make my daughter’s wedding the battlefield where it died. But David had apparently made a different plan, and he expected me to cooperate with it in silence.
When I asked what Melissa was doing there, David’s face showed guilt for only a second before he hid it behind irritation. He acted as though I were creating the problem simply by noticing that his mistress was seated at the family table in the place reserved for the bride’s mother. Then Melissa looked at me and said, “Honey, today really isn’t the day to make Emily uncomfortable.” I almost laughed, because the woman who had been sleeping with my husband for nearly a year was now warning me not to embarrass my own daughter.
I could feel people settling into nearby seats, laughing and talking, unaware that my marriage was being quietly rearranged in front of them. David kept his voice low and told me we should not “do this here,” as if the humiliation belonged to me because I refused to disappear politely. I looked at the empty chair he had chosen for me between a cousin and someone from the groom’s side, and I realized something colder than anger. This was not spontaneous; he had thought about where Melissa would sit, and he had assumed I would move.
For twenty-eight years, I had been the woman who adjusted, explained, forgave, and made excuses when David forgot anniversaries, missed dinners, or put work ahead of family. When he became distant, I learned to expect less instead of asking for more, and somewhere along the way he mistook that patience for permission. Even now, part of me considered taking the other chair, smiling for photographs, swallowing the humiliation, and telling myself it was all for Emily. I actually reached for the chair because protecting my daughter still mattered more to me than winning a public fight.
Then I heard one word behind me: “Mom?” Emily was walking toward us in her wedding dress, still glowing from the ceremony, and at first she looked confused rather than angry. Her eyes moved from me, to the empty chair, to Melissa, then back to the family table where she had personally placed me months ago. David quickly stepped in and announced that he had “rearranged a few things,” as if changing the bride’s seating chart without permission were no more serious than moving a centerpiece.
Emily asked why I was not sitting in my seat, and David casually pointed to the neighboring table and said I would be sitting “right there.” Her smile disappeared, and her eyes dropped to the place card in front of Melissa. I watched my daughter’s expression go completely still as she picked up that card and turned it over in her hand. In that instant, I understood the worst part: Emily had not approved this, and David had brought his mistress into our daughter’s wedding believing he could force everyone to accept what he wanted once it was already done.
What Emily did not know was that six months earlier, I had discovered David’s affair through a message that appeared on his phone while he was in the shower. Melissa had written, “I hate pretending I don’t miss you when she’s around,” followed by another message asking whether Friday was still theirs. When I confronted him, David spent eleven minutes calling me paranoid, insecure, dramatic, suspicious, and unfair before I repeated Melissa’s words exactly. The silence that followed ended our marriage long before either of us ever said the word divorce.
We had kept the details quiet because Emily was planning her wedding, and I refused to turn her happiest season into a crisis about us. David told me he was “confused,” that what he had with Melissa was “more complicated than an affair,” and that he needed time before making decisions. I agreed only that Emily’s wedding came first, so we slept in separate rooms, spoke carefully, and tried to appear functional while our marriage quietly collapsed. I believed David understood that one day required restraint, but he had apparently used that silence to prepare something else.
Three weeks before the wedding, he had casually asked whether Emily had finalized the family table and whether every seat had been assigned. At the time, I thought it was harmless conversation, but standing there with Melissa’s card in my daughter’s hand, I finally understood why he had asked. He had been checking whether there would be room, and when there was not, he simply removed me. Emily looked up at her father and asked, very quietly, “Where is Mom’s place card?”—and for the first time that night, David had no easy answer.
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